Stop the Sting {Works for Me Wednesday}

Summer is upon us and with summer comes bugs.  This summer will be especially bad since we had a super mild winter and the bugs probably didn’t get killed off.  This is a bit distressing to me because I seem to be very attractive to mosquitos.  All my life I’m the one who ends up with a body covered in bug bites when no one else around me gets anything.  And I have a lack of self control when it comes to bug bites – I must scratch them!  Usually to the point of bleeding so then I have nasty scabs in addition to all my bites.  Not the most attractive look.

So needless to say, I’ve tried all sorts of remedies.  They’ve ranged in effectiveness from not helping at all, to helping a little, to numbing the area but then the itch comes back with a vengeance.

I’m happy to report that a few years ago I finally found a product that actually works.  The itching stops very quickly after you put Stops the Sting on the bug bite and it may start itching again later, but for me it usually doesn’t start again for a day or so.  I got my first bug bite this year while at ladies’ retreat.  I used the Stop the Sting once right after my bite started itching and then had to use it once more about 5 days later on the same spot.

Stops the Sting

This is the best stuff I’ve ever used on my bug bites!  It’s also marketed to be used on jellyfish stings, bee stings, fire ant bites, and more, although I can’t personally vouch for it’s effectiveness on those (you can read testimonials here).  I imagine it would work well, though, considering how well it worked on my ultra-itchy bug bites!

I found this Stops the Sting at a local feed store (Dorris Milling for any of you Springfield people who want to buy some), but fortunately  even if you don’t live near Springfield you can still buy some here.

So if you or your kids routinely deal with bug bites and bee stings, I highly recommend this product!  Stops the Sting definitely works for me!

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(P.S. I was not compensated in any way for this review – I’m just really happy to share my find!)

Oh and by the way, you can get the book I was featured in (That Works for Me!) for 50% off May 8 and May 9 only (in honor of Mother’s Day).  So if you want one, now is a good chance to grab a copy!  Just use the code “works4mom” and go here to purchase.  You can also head over to Kristen’s blog and get some great Mother’s Day coupons.

stop a cold before it starts! {Works for Me Wednesday}

Last Saturday and Sunday (not this past weekend but the one before it) I felt tired all day, even after getting full nights of sleep the previous nights.  Both Michael and my mom they hoped I wasn’t getting sick.  They know me so well – the only time I’m ever really tired  (not counting if I’ve stayed up really late) is when I’m getting sick.  And they were right…Tuesday at work I started feeling just a little bit bad and as the day wore on I got worse and worse – sore throat, stopped up nose, ears hurting, the works.  I knew a full blown cold was coming on.

I don’t know if it was due to seasonal allergies…

…or just a spring cold, but I could tell I was getting something.

I don’t get sick all that often, so when I do it’s usually a doozy and I have to get much, much worse before I get better.  But just out of curiosity I asked my wonderful Facebook friends if anyone could recommend a way to prevent a cold before it started or keep it from getting worse.

I got several suggestions, but the one that I got multiple times was Zicam.  I didn’t even know what that was, but I was willing to give it a try so I stopped at the store on my way home from work and bought a bottle.

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 They are these little tablets that dissolve in your mouth.  You’re supposed to take one approximately every 3 hours from the time you notice the cold starting until the symptoms disappear.  You can read more details here.

I was skeptical but I gave it a shot.  I took 4 or 5 Zicam per day, plus one Benadryl at night (the Benadryl was nothing new, I always take it at night when I have a cold/sinus problems, so I don’t think it made a significant difference).  And guess what?  My cold didn’t get any worse!  Like I said before, I usually have to get much worse before I get better.  But this time, not once have I woken up with a stopped up nose or crusty eyes.  My nose has been a little runny but I’ve still been able to breathe fine and I certainly haven’t gone through a whole box of tissues like I usually do.  My throat has been a little dry and I’ve needed a cough drop twice for the soreness, but I didn’t have hacking coughs, extremely sore throat, or lose my voice like I do every year at this time.

Since this is my first time using Zicam, I can’t say 100% that the Zicam was what stopped my cold from progressing (there is a chance it was some freak miracle) but I fell pretty confident that it was indeed the Zicam that kept me from getting sick.  I was skeptical before, but I’m a believer now and I’ll definitely be keeping Zicam on hand to have for future colds.

Zicam works for me!

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(fyi Zicam is in no way compensating me for this post.  They have no idea who I am.  I’m just a not-sick girl who wants to share what I’ve learned)

know your numbers (and do your research!) {Works for Me Wednesday}

It is all too easy to get hung up on the number on the scale.  Trust me, I know.  I’ve been bouncing around the same number for the past 15 days even though I’m eating right and exercising.  And that’s frustrating.  But it’s not all about the number on the scale.

I hadn’t even really thought to talk about this until I had an interesting experience at the gym yesterday (more about that in a sec) that made me feel the need to share.  I don’t claim to be a doctor or have it all right, but I try to make sure my information is accurate.

So, some other numbers to know:

1. Your body mass index (BMI).  You can calculate it using this formula: (weight in pounds/height in inches squared ) x 703 (which I made my students do mwah ha ha…come on, it was math class!) or you can easily calculate it yourself here.  This is not the most accurate tool in the world because the only thing the formula takes into account are your height and weight – so a very active, health conscious 150 pound person will have the same BMI as someone that’s 150 pounds but doesn’t work out and eats junk (assuming they are the same height), however one is probably a lot healthier than the other.  However, it’s still gives a fairly good idea of where you fall – before I started getting serious about my health I fell into the obese category, soon after I started following the South Beach diet and exercising my BMI feel into the “normal weight” category, just recently I’ve gained a few (that I’m trying super hard to lose!) so right now I’m in the overweight category.

2. Your waist circumference.  A high waist circumference indicates too much abdominal fat and puts you at a risk for heart disease, high blood pressure, type 2 diabetes, and and high cholesterol.  For men, a high waist circumference is anything larger than 40 inches and for women it’s larger than 35 inches (information found here).  Use a flexible tape measure (I got mine from the sewing section at Walmart) to measure with.  The exact method/place of how/where to measure is something I haven’t quite figured out…do you measure at the smallest part?  The largest part?  I’m not sure. This source says to start at the top of the hipbone and bring it all around level with your navel.  This video says not to worry about where your hipbones are and to measure where your belly button is.  The top of my hipbones are level with my belly button so I think either method would work for me but that may not be the case for everyone.  Any health/fitness experts able to enlighten us?

3. Your body fat percentage.  To find this number you may have to visit a doctor or a gym, although there are also bathroom scales that measure body fat % (I’d be interested to know how accurate those are – I’ve been using the same cheapo scale that I bought the very first week I started South Beach years ago and it still works great, seems to be accurate as the numbers match when I weigh at the doctor – but someday I might like to have a fancier scale that measures body fat % too).  Anyway, I think body fat percentage is a much more accurate assessment of your health/fitness than the scale or even BMI.

Here’s why you need to do your research and why I mentioned my interesting experience at the gym.  Yesterday I showed up at the gym for my fitness class.  Our instructor told us that the gym was offering free health screenings (blood pressure, BMI, and body fat percentage).  I always have great BP and I can figure out my BMI on my own, but I was interested in my body fat percentage so I went to do that after my workout.  First thing I found out was that my reading was probably not going to be very accurate because I had just worked out (apparently that makes a difference) and that the measurement tool could measure 6% above or below my actual percentage, so a pretty large margin.  But I went ahead and did it anyway.  The little calculator thing said my % was 27.8%.  Again, that could be anywhere from 21.8% to 33.8% (or maybe even more/less since I had just worked out…who knows) because of the margin of error.  I asked the guy who did my reading what an ideal body fat percentage would be for someone my age and my height – he said less than 20%, ideally 15%.

That didn’t feel right to me, I couldn’t bring an exact number to mind but 15% seemed way lower than what I remembered from past information I had gotten.  When I got home I did a little searching and kept finding this chart and other charts that were similar:

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There are some that are more specific based on age but I liked the simplistic information that this one presented.  Basically, average body fat percentage for a woman (women have more body fat then men) is 25-31%.  If my reading from yesterday was in fact correct, then I’m at an average percentage.  Someone who is fit should have a percentage of 21-24%.  However, the 15% body fat that the “trainer” told me was my ideal is at the very low end of the category of body fat that would be considered an athlete.  Like a hardcore athlete.  Now how realistic is that?  Fortunately I did my own bit of research and now plan to shoot for that 21-24% range but no way do I even want to try to get down to 15%!  There’s no telling how much exercise I would have to do and how much chocolate I would have to give up!

(side note: fitness/health people – if I’m totally off base here please let me know!  Am I correct in thinking that 15% body fat is a bit unrealistic and not quite necessary?)

Anyway, I say all that to say this:

1. Don’t put so much emphasis on the scale.  I woke up this morning and my rings were tight – that’s a sign I’m retaining water and the scale reflected that.  So I try to remind myself of that and not get all bent out of shape about it.  Remember that there are other indicators that you are healthy and/or improving your health so try not to let the number on the scale stress you out – it’s just a number (I’m totally preaching to myself here, too)

2. Do your homework!  Find knowledgable professionals to evaluate you and help determine what is a good weight/BMI/body fat percentage for you.  Don’t just assume that what the magazines or the random person at the gym tells you are what’s right for you.

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some weight loss motivation

Week one of South Beach phase 1 is done.  At the end of week one I have lost 4.4 pounds.  Yay!!  (Disclaimer: 4 pounds of weight loss per week is not a realistic amount.  You should aim/expect to lose 1-2 pounds per week.  However, when you first start a diet you will lose some water weight from all the junky stuff you’ve been eating (i.e. holiday food!) and so you’ll lose more.  That’s why most people lose 8-13 pounds during the two weeks of phase 1; but then 1-2 pounds is average for phase 2.  Just wanted to make sure you know that I’m not starving myself or doing anything extreme.)

Since right before the new year, a bunch of the visitors to my blog have come via search terms about South Beach.  (If you’re not a blogger – I can see what search terms people use that bring them to my blog….and a lot of them recently have involved SB).  So if you’re here as a result of looking for South Beach stuff…WELCOME!  Look around, check out my recipes – there are quite a few that are SB friendly (just avoid the dessert section!), and feel free to ask questions.

Ok back on topic…so obviously some big motivators for losing weight are to be healthier and to look better.  For me, I’m also motivated because almost none of my pants fit and I refuse to buy more (so right now I’m living in skirts – much more forgiving!).  However, sometimes it’s hard to stay motivated when fitting back into those pants seems so far away and that piece of cake is sitting right there.  Now, the first time I did South Beach I didn’t really have all kinds of things to motivate me.  I mean, basically I knew that I had to be healthier and lose weight since I had bad cholesterol and I was obese.  I also had this one pair of jeans from high school that were too small that I would put on periodically, hoping to be able to fit into them eventually (which I was able to, and then I kept losing!).  But I didn’t have any other rewards so to speak.  And I did very well.  But this time around I’m a little more impatient and I’m afraid that will hurt me.

So what I’m trying is to set little goals with small rewards along the way.  I can’t say that this is going to work for me since I haven’t used this method before (I’ll keep you posted).  These things are so small that they may not even be that motivating, maybe they’ll just serve as little rewards, pats on the back, when I reach each goal.  But no matter, I just wanted to share with you in case you think this is something that might be beneficial in your own journey.

I want to lose 25 pounds from my Jan.2 weight so I broke it into 5 pound increments.  Each time I lose 5 pounds I get a little reward.

minus 5 pounds (first 5 pounds lost): gummy vitamins

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I take a multivitamin every day – usually just the most inexpensive, generic brand, multivitamin Kroger sells.  But I really like gummy vitamins – they’re so yummy and it’s like having a little treat with breakfast.  However, I’m cheap and will not shell out for them so unless someone else buys them (the Easter Bunny put some in my basket last year) I’ll just stick with the cheap-os.  So this will be a fun (and healthy) reward once I’ve lost the first 5 (and I’m less than one pound away from my first goals – so hopefully sometime this week!)

minus 10 pounds (5 more pounds lost): Essie Nail polish “a cut above”

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Another little something that I wouldn’t normally buy for myself.  But once I’ve lost 10 pounds, be expecting to see this pretty pink polish on my nails!

minus 15 pounds: Lorac lip stain

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I’ve been longing for this lip stain since I saw Little Miss Momma’s post about her makeup.  I just haven’t been willing to shell out $20.00 for it – but you better believe that I’ll be rocking this once I’ve lost those 15 pounds!

minus 20 pounds: a pedicure

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Pretty toes and soft feet just make me feel so good.  I love to get a pedicure but don’t do so very often, so this will be a nice treat.

minus 25 pounds: a massage

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Massages are one of my all time favorite things in the whole world.  If you ever need a gift idea for me, a gift certificate for a massage would be divine.  So once I’ve reached that goal weight…that “happy weight” I’ve talked about that isn’t my supermodel thin, ultimate goal weight; but it’s one where I know I can maintain without super strict dieting and rigorous exercise…I’m treating myself to a massage (and probably some new clothes, too…but you have to buy new clothes ever so often so that isn’t quite as much of a indulgent treat…right?)

So there you have it, those are my little rewards.  I picked things that I like or wanted, but wouldn’t normally just up and buy for myself.  I also chose things that would help me feel pretty (nail polish, pedi, lip stick), healthy (vitamins), or relaxed (massage, pedi).  While I did pick something I like to eat (vitamins), I didn’t really use food as a reward.  Food is what got me in to this!

Anyway, that’s my game plan for this weight loss journey – I’ll let you know how it goes.

What motivates you to be healthy and/or lose weight?

working out while traveling {Works for Me Wednesday}

Last week for Works for Me Wednesday I gave some tips for eating healthy while traveling.  This week I’m going to talk about how to get some exercise in while traveling.

Exercising can be hard when you are away from home.  If you’re like me, though, not exercising for a week can really set you back fitness-wise (that first trip back to the gym after a week away – ouch!) and not exercising might make you feel sluggish.  Plus if you’re like me you tend to eat a little more food and and a little less healthy when you aren’t at home so burning some calories each day is helpful.  Here are some tips:

If you are in a hotel or resort, you should be good to go.  I think every hotel I’ve stayed at since starting this healthy lifestyle (even shady hotels in Mexico) have had some sort of fitness center.  Most recently our hotels in Chattanooga and Nashville had little gyms with treadmills, ellipticals, bikes, free weights, mats, and exercise balls.  I was able to get cardio and weight training in while we were there.  Sure, it wasn’t as great as the spinning, Zumba, and other group fitness classes I would have taken at home, but at least I was able to work out some.  The resort we went to two summers ago for vacation had a nice, (hot – no A/C!) fitness room that I used.  They even had Pilates and yoga classes on the beach in the mornings and evenings that I went to a few times.  Exercising with a beautiful view!

The gym at our hotel in Nashville (Doubletree) last week [source]

Let’s say your hotel doesn’t have a gym.  Or let’s say that you are not staying at a hotel – with the holidays coming up you might be more likely to be staying with family or friends.  That can be a little less convenient but we can still make it work (said in my best Tim Gunn voice).

Get some workout videos.  You can take these videos with you, pop them in to your laptop and work out anywhere.  I use this method a lot when we stay with my parents or Michael’s.  My favorite is Jillian Michael’s 30 Day Shred.  You can get it on Amazon for less than $9.00. (disclaimer – I tried the whole 30 day thing and didn’t see any difference at all.  This was not an effective way for me to lose weight.  Only doing one session really isn’t going to do much for you anyway since they’re so short, sorry.  Usually I do two sessions back to back when I use this video and it’s not any better than any ol’ session at the gym but it gets in cardio and strength and it’s convenient for when I’m not at the gym.) There are tons of other workout videos, too – Zumba, Pilates, yoga, kickboxing, dance – whatever suits your fancy.

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Another option is to get one of those stretchy band things (resistance bands?) and take it with you.  It’s small and light so you can easily pack it in your suitcase, plus you can get a really good workout with them.  I don’t own one (although I want one!) but I’ve used them in workout classes in the gym.  I’m sure there are tons of YouTube videos that show you how to use them if you don’t know.

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If you like to run or walk, try to find a nice path or track you can use wherever you are.  There’s probably a park or Greenway of some sort nearby.  This summer when I stayed with my grandparents for a week there was a hospital right down the street that had a pond with a track around it.  I was able to go there and run several times during my visit.  If you can’t find an “official” track, there still might be places you run/walk (one year on Thanksgiving morning I ran up and down my grandparent’s driveway for 30 minutes).    You could also check to see if there is a community gym or fitness center where you could pay a small daily fee to use.

Maybe you don’t want to take the time during your vacation to have a formal work out.  There are other ways you can creatively work in exercise.  Last spring we went to Gatlinburg for a long weekend and on Saturday we went on a hike; we got a little exercise in while doing something different and fun.  You could plan a family bike ride, play tennis, or go swimming.  Play Wii with your nieces and nephews.  Go for a walk with the family after your Thanksgiving meal.  Challenge your cousins to a pickup basketball game.  Put on some music and dance.  Rake your grandparents’ yard.

Hopefully some of these tips will help you stay active while you’re traveling this holiday season.  Do you have a good work out while traveling tip that I didn’t mention?  Leave a comment so we can hear about it if you do!

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eating healthy while traveling {Works for Me Wednesday}

A friend recently asked me for some advice on how to eat healthy while traveling.  Her question came right at the same time as we were getting ready to leave for a week in Nashville and I was preparing to try to be healthy while not at home so that was fresh on my mind.  Here are some tips and examples that might help you, especially during the holiday season.

The first tip I can give, no matter what type of traveling you are doing, is to try to plan ahead and prepare as much as you can.  I try to either bring snacks and food already prepared, bring things that can easily be prepared wherever I’m going, or go to the grocery when I get there and buy some healthy things (all of this depends on where I’m going, the duration of the trip, etc.).

Here’s what I’ve done for this week:  The “scenario” is that we are in Nashville for four days.  Michael needs the car during the day so I’m staying at the hotel while he’s gone (I have a ton of grad school stuff to do so I wouldn’t have gotten a chance to leave anyway).  We requested a microwave and fridge in our hotel room (having those gives you tons more options so it’s always a good idea to ask for them when you travel).  I made and brought breakfast, lunch, and snacks that didn’t require tons of assembly once we got here.

Here’s a peek into our fridge (the Cokes are Michael’s, the rest is mine)

For breakfast I made my quiche cups.  I had planned on just having that for breakfast but at the last minute I noticed our milk would expire while we were gone so I grabbed a bottle and poured in some milk.  I just warm up the quiche cups in the microwave, pour a cup of milk, and breakfast is served – easy peasy.  I also use the milk for my coffee – I rarely drink coffee at home so it’s a nice treat to have it in the hotel room.

For lunch I (actually, Michael) made a batch of Mexican rice.  I portioned it out into containers, washed grapes, and cut up a block of cheese (I LOVE slices of cheese!).  I can just heat the rice in the microwave; that along with grapes and cheese is a yummy lunch.

For my snacks I brought oranges (already peeled so I didn’t have to worry about bringing a knife or making a huge mess), hardboiled eggs (again, already peeled), a random apple that I found in our fridge before we left, and some yogurt.  Like I said, pre-planned, pre-prepared, pre-portioned, pre-packed, etc. is the key here.

I also brought a box of popcorn since we have the microwave.

I brought along paper plates, silverware, and paper towels.

Now I have all plenty of food for breakfast, lunch, and snacks and I don’t have to worry about eating junk for four straight days.  We will go out to eat for supper every night and I’m meeting a friend for lunch one day but I don’t have to feel guilty since I’ve eaten healthy the majority of the time (and I can make healthy choices while eating out, too).

This is situation where we had a fridge and microwave and I wasn’t planning on leaving the hotel anyway – it would be different if I was going to be out and about shopping or sight-seeing every day.  Take these ideas and adapt them to suit your traveling needs.  If you plan to be out and about you can still bring your breakfast and some snacks (that can be carried in your purse) and then just eat out for lunch and supper.  Eating some healthy meals is better than eating no healthy meals.

For example, when we were in Chattanooga we weren’t going to have a fridge or microwave in our room.  We ended up with a fridge because they had to switch our rooms so we bought some bottled water and yogurt but since I didn’t know ahead of time I didn’t bring food like you see above.  We bought some muffins from the deli at Walmart and I had one of those for breakfast – not really a healthy choice, but still better to just eat one than to go to a breakfast buffet.  For lunch I walked to Panera or Qdoba, both places where I know of relatively healthy, low calorie meal choices.  In situations like this you can still have healthy snacks on hand like fruit that doesn’t need to be refrigerated, granola bars, or healthy crackers.

You also can always bring a cooler of your own and just keep it filled with ice from the machine at the hotel.  This is time consuming but it can be done.  Every summer we used to go to Mexico on mission trips (driving, not flying).  Some years I did better about bringing my own healthy stuff than others.  One year in particular I remember bringing a cooler full of snacks and Michael, the sweetie that he is, made sure it was full of ice every day.  It was quite a bit of work (mostly for him) but it helped me have healthy options.  I don’t remember specifics since it’s been several years but I know I brought apples cut into slices with peanut butter in little containers for an apple with peanut butter snack.  I think I also had some other little snacks like cheese, veggies with dip, and other fruits.  I was able to have my own breakfast and snacks on the road and while in Mexico.  I ate out (or what the ladies at the church there made) at lunch and dinner.

When I go somewhere like my parents, my in-laws, or on a retreat where I know there is a full kitchen that I have access to I bring my own food but don’t worry quite so much about preparing everything ahead of time.  I can bring something like my turkey bacon and some eggs and cook them there.  Or bring my own cereal and have that with the milk that’s already there.  Fortunately both my parents and my in-laws usually have healthy options at their house that I can eat so I don’t have to bring much with me at all anymore.  But, for example, when I went to stay with my grandparents for a week this summer I just went to the grocery when I got there, bought some of “my” food, and then cooked/prepared it in their kitchen.

Well this post ended up being much longer than I planned (have I mentioned before that I talk a lot?).  I hope you read something here that will help you stick to being healthy even when you travel.  Let me know if you have any more questions!

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my weight loss journey part 7 – the future

  1. read my weight loss journey part 1 – the background here.
  2. read my weight loss journey part 2 – the diet here.
  3. read my weight loss journey part 3 – the exercise here.
  4. read my weight loss journey part 4 – the results here.
  5. read my weight loss journey part 5 – the maintenance here.
  6. read my weight loss journey part 6 – the struggles here.

I hope that this mini-series has encouraged, uplifted, or inspired you in some way.  I know that just writing this down has really inspired me to get back to that girl I was in college.  If you already live an active, healthy lifestyle then at least you will know understand when I refer to weight loss or healthy living in my posts (it was such a huge life change that I sort of think of many things in my life as before the lifestyle change and after).

Before I close out I want to discuss what the future (hopefully) holds for me.  For one, now that I’ve told you that I’m going to get back on track I have to keep my word and do that.  I’m now accountable to you and so my goal is to back to my “happy weight” (that’s how I’m going to refer to that range where I know my body is comfortable and I could live forever like that) within the next few months.  That’s an immediate future goal, but recently I’ve also been thinking about longer-term goals.

We’ve discussed before (many times) my love of Pinterest.  Lots of the posts there are centered around fitness, exercise, diet, and healthy living.  Two images that I’ve seen several times and that have really made me think are these:


Both of these pictures have started me thinking about the example I’m going to be for my daughters (not being sexist, girls just seem to struggle more than boys).  Yes, that is a long way off but it’s something I need to figure out now.  I don’t want my daughters to see me going through cycles of dieting, falling off the wagon, gaining weight, being disgusted with how I look/feel, dieting again, etc.  I don’t her/them to learn negative body image or self talk from me.  I all my children to grow up learning a healthy lifestyle where we make healthy choices but don’t put all our focus on that.

So that’s my long term goal.  To get my mindset and habits in a place where I am living a healthy life, not obsessed with how I look or hating myself for having a piece of cake.  Not letting the number on the scale rule me.  Having BALANCE.  I hope you will set that goal for yourself, too.  Let’s teach our daughters, nieces, friends, students, coworkers, observers, everyone that it’s good to strive to be healthy, but that we are so much more than a body type or a number.

my weight loss journey part 6 – the struggles

  1. read my weight loss journey part 1 – the background here.
  2. read my weight loss journey part 2 – the diet here.
  3. read my weight loss journey part 3 – the exercise here.
  4. read my weight loss journey part 4 – the results here.
  5. read my weight loss journey part 5 – the maintenance here.

Let’s be clear: this weight loss journey hasn’t been all sunshine and roses.  I’ve mentioned in past posts about injuries and gaining back some weight in the past few years.  So in the interest of full disclosure I want to share some of the struggles that can happen.

  • It is completely true what they say that losing the weight is the easy part, keeping the weight off (maintenance) is the hard part.  Please don’t think that once you hit that goal weight you can go right back to eating the way you had been.  You can have more treats, but you can’t do that every day or all the weight will come right back.  That is why it is so important to make this a lifestyle change and not just a diet
  • I will probably always struggle with my weight.  If I want to stay like I was in those years after my initial weight loss then I’m going to have to work for it.  I will never be able to eat what I want and look great.  I’m always going to have to watch what I eat, limit the treats, and exercise.  That’s just the way  it has to be.  However, I try to look at that positively and think that if I could eat anything I wanted without gaining weight I probably would and would probably be much more unhealthy.  Have to eat this way to control how I look on the outside is also benefiting me on the inside (remember my cholesterol stats?) so in actuality it is a blessing.
  • Exercising alone does not work for me as far as losing weight goes.  I can exercise until my legs fall off, be in great shape, able to run long distances or spin for a long time and still not lose any weight.  I may tone up some but I won’t lose overall poundage.  I have to also watch my food carefully in addition to exercising in order to see results.  I wish I could lose weight simply by exercising more and eat what I want, but alas it is not to be.  But like I said, that’s probably for the best because it forces me to be healthy.
  • Balance.  I’ve been doing this for 5 years now and I have yet to find a balance with having treats.  I want to be able to live my healthy lifestyle 90 or 95% of the time with a few unhealthy choices now and then, but that is hard for me.  I’m kind of a 100% “on” or 100% “off” kind of girl.  And that brings me to my next point…
  • Self control.  This is a huge struggle for me.  In an ideal, balanced (see above) world, I would be able to make a batch of cookies, eat one or two, and then be done.  Unfortunately, I’m more likely to make a batch of cookies and eat half of them.  I have very little self control when it comes to sweets.  Even though I want to be able to just eat a few bites and be done, I usually either have to completely say “no” or else I will eat way way way too much.  That’s where I struggle with self control big time.  But I keep working on it and maybe someday…
  • Obsession.  I’ve talked about this a little in earlier posts as well.  It is so easy to become obsessed with diet and exercise that you develop an eating disorder or place it in a position of importance above other things that should take priority.  I believe that we should make ourselves a priority and take care of our bodies, but the world doesn’t end if we eat one extra dessert or skip one workout class.  I have to remind myself of that frequently, and remind myself that the number on the scale does not define me.
  • I was so blessed to have a wonderful support system around me during my initial weight loss (well, actually, my whole life but right now I’m focusing on this period in my life).  Michael, my family, my friends, my doctor, people at the gym – they were all so encouraging and loving.  I never felt like they tried to tempt me with food or resented me.  That’s not the case with everyone.  I know that many people don’t have that support system and even have people who will try to sabotage them.  I hope this isn’t the case but I wanted to put it out there so you know.  There were a few times when people would make some snarky comments or comments veiled as a compliment that were actually an insult.  But that’s life and you move on.  Like I said, overall I was incredibly amazed by the support.

I’m sure there are more struggles but those are some of the big ones that I wanted to share with you.  It’s not always going to be easy, but I can guarantee that you will not regret switching to a healthier lifestyle.

(keep reading: part 7)

my weight loss journey part 5 – the maintinence

  1. read my weight loss journey part 1 – the background here.
  2. read my weight loss journey part 2 – the diet here.
  3. read my weight loss journey part 3 – the exercise here.
  4. read my weight loss journey part 4 – the results here.

So like I said yesterday, after 5 months (September 2006 – January 2007) of faithfully doing the South Beach Diet and exercising, I had lost between 35 – 40 pounds.  I stayed at that weight for about 10 months and maintained it easily with Phase 2/3 eating and 30ish minutes of exercise per day.  Until I got out my food journals, I thought this was the weight I stayed at until we got married.  However, around December 2007 I started losing again (I didn’t really remember this, but I guess I just started being more mindful of what I was eating) and I lost 5-10 more pounds.  I kept that off for about 5 months but then it kind of went back up to my original weight loss range.  I held pretty steady at that weight for another year.

Easter 2007

Summer 2007

Halloween 2007

A good comparison: Halloween 2006 (left) and Halloween 2007 (right)

Christmas 2007

March 2008

April 2008

April 2009

At the time, I still thought I should lose more.  Don’t get me wrong, I felt very healthy and happy but even after all that weight loss I still wasn’t ready to rock a bikini or anything.  However, looking back it is obvious that the weight I reached after my original big weight loss is one that my body is comfortable at and is pretty easy for me to maintain.  I think that in order to reach that elusive goal weight and have that awesome body I would have to be so strict with my diet and exercise.  And guess what?  I don’t want to!  I love food too much and I don’t want to obsess over every little thing.  So as long as I’m healthy, I think I’m going to accept that weight for what it is – I’m not super thin but it’s obvious that’s a good weight for me.

Things got harder after we got married.  For one, we lived in an apartment complex with a little tiny gym so we didn’t want to purchase a gym membership, but it didn’t have much stuff and there were definitely no classes for me to go to.  Another thing was that I started my first year of teaching.  If I wasn’t working late hours at school I was bring stuff home to work on.  It was brutal, one of the hardest things I’ve done, and as a result I stopped working out almost altogether and we definitely let the healthy eating slide.  That first year I gained back 15-20 pounds.  That following summer (2010) we decided to join a gym which really helped and I made a promise to myself that I was going to workout during the school year.  I wasn’t going to let work dictate me and I was going to make time for myself.  I did great with that and worked out consistently all school year last year, even after starting grad school during the spring semester.  I just made sure to make time for it.  However, I still wasn’t careful enough with my food so I toned back up since I had started working out again but I didn’t lose much weight.

Summer 2010

This is a little off topic, but I don’t really know where to put it so I’m just sticking it in here.  All during my weight loss I had never counted calories.  That wasn’t something I wanted to get obsessed with, and I was getting results without doing so.  However, after we got our iPhones last summer I got an app, called Lose It, where you can enter your food and it tracks your calories eaten and burned.  You can also enter your weight loss and it makes a nice pretty graph (very exciting to this math teacher).  I was already writing all my food down so I just started doing so electronically using this app.  It was nice because is stored previous meals so I didn’t have to re-write stuff every day.  I don’t advocate counting calories exclusively, because eating 300 calories of junk food is definitely does not do the same thing to your body as eating 300 calories of lean meat and veggies.  But it is a good way to keep an eye on how much you are eating.  I’ll use it for a while to check myself and make sure I’m on track, then I’ll quit for a while just to take a break.

So here I stand (sit, actually, while writing this) about 15 pounds above that weight where I know my body is happy and that can be maintained.  However, writing this has really inspired me and reminded me that I did it before and I can do it again.  We have joined a gym here in Bowling Green and I’m enjoying it so far; I just need to be a little more careful with my eating and I know the weight will come back off.

both pictures from last week

(keep reading: part 6 and part 7)

my weight loss journey part 4 – the results

  1. read my weight loss journey part 1 – the background here.
  2. read my weight loss journey part 2 – the diet here.
  3. read my weight loss journey part 3 – the exercise here.

You’ve so patiently read through what I did, how, and why, but I know that what you really want to hear are the facts, the stats, the results, find out “did it work?”.  Short answer: yes.  Long answer: keep reading.

I got my South Beach book during the summer before my sophomore year of college.  I decided to wait until after the first week of school to start because the first week of school there were tons of free meals provided for us by our church and I didn’t know if I would be able to resist temptation.  On Saturday after that first week of school I bought tons of healthy groceries, pre-made lots of South Beach approved food, and of course had my “last meal” and treated myself to my favorite Mexican restaurant and a huge frappuccino from Starbucks.  Sunday morning I hit the ground running and never looked back.

Mind you, that first semester that I was doing South Beach I was living in a dorm room and had a small meal plan (I later moved off campus).  I usually ate breakfast in my room, lunch in the cafeteria on campus, and supper at Michael’s apartment.  For breakfast I just pre-made stuff at Michael’s that could be warmed up in my microwave.  For lunch I just learned to make healthy choices in the all-you-can-eat lunchroom.  I made sure to have lots of healthy snacks on hand, and then I cooked a health dinner at Michael’s.  Oh and I might also mention that I hardly knew how to cook and had only made a few meals in my life, I just taught myself as I went.  Make no mistake, this was not super easy.  It took extra planning and effort to have healthy food on hand and to cook every night, plus if Michael hadn’t had an apartment and I hadn’t had such easy access to a stove it would have been much harder.  But it can be done.  And it was so worth it.  And this first semester, while living in a dorm room with only a small fridge and microwave and while still having to eat in the cafeteria, I saw my biggest weight loss.  It CAN be done.

Don’t forget I also started exercising at our gym – mostly walking, stationary bike, elliptical, jogging, and power yoga – yoga was the only fitness class I took that whole first semester, the rest was just on my own.

Side note: I’ve pulled out my old food journals from when I first started and it has been really fun to go back and look at what I ate and what I did.  By the way, time and time again I’ve heard that writing down what you eat every day really helps you stay on track.  I did that faithfully for the first few years although I don’t do it as constantly as I should.

On with the weight loss results:

By the end of Phase 1 (the first two week) I had lost 10 pounds.  Just looking back at my records I can see that during that time I still ate out once and went to eat at a friends house while still sticking to my diet.  In about a month I was down 15 pounds.  In two months I had lost 20 pounds.  I started my diet at the very beginning of September.  By Christmas (so over the course of one semester of college) I had lost 30 pounds.  I never really crunched the numbers before, but after that initial big weight loss during Phase 1 I lost about 5 pounds per month.  Not exactly Biggest Loser results, but still effective.  Looking back at my journal I see that I ate Thanksgiving and Christmas meals.  I ate Reeses sometimes.  I had cookies sometimes.  I just didn’t have them every day and I got right back on track the next day.

Now some medical results:

  • The first time I went to see my doctor (August 8, 2006 when he told me to start my diet) my total cholesterol was 201 (high), my bad cholesterol was 141 (high) and my good cholesterol was 40 (low).
  • When I went back January 1, 2007 (30 pounds lost), my total cholesterol was 181, my bad cholesterol was 128, and my good cholesterol had gone up to 43.
  • When I went back a third time June 11, 2007, my total cholesterol was 188, my bad cholesterol was 123, and my good cholesterol was 55.

So with diet and exercise alone (along with a few supplements) I got all my cholesterol numbers within the desired range in just a few months.  No meds for me.  (I do still take the supplements – fish oil and niacin to help with the good cholesterol).

By mid-January I had lost about 5 more pounds and I basically leveled off there.  Overall I had a total weight loss of between 35-40 pounds.  My weight fluctuates a ton – it can change as much as 3 pounds overnight.  Because of that, I don’t try to worry about staying at one particular number because I would make myself crazy, instead I have a range of about 5 pounds where I want my weight to stay.  So basically in 5 months I reached a weight where I was healthy and my body was comfortable.  It wasn’t my “goal weight” but it was pretty obvious that my body was content right there.

Halloween 2006 – 2 months after starting South Beach

February 2007 at 35-40 pound weight loss

February 2007 again

Tomorrow we’ll talk about the maintenance – from January 2007 to now.

(keep reading: part 5, part 6, and part 7)